​​The Antidote to Judgement

Biggest Takeaways You Don't Want to Miss:
  • If you are judging anyone, you cannot influence them.
  • The antidote to judgment is curiosity.
  • There are specific things you can be curious about and a great way to remember them is to remember the VIBES acronym where V=Values, I=Identifiers, B=Beliefs, E=Emotional Triggers, and S=Stated or Secret Goals and Dreams.

Have you ever found yourself judging a teacher? You don’t mean to do it on purpose, but that teacher is just doing something that frankly, gets on your nerves. Well today, we’re going to talk about what you can do when you find yourself judging a teacher. You’ll learn why judgment kills your ability to influence a teacher and the quick trick you can use to immediately shift out of judgment and have greater impact on even your most difficult and frustrating teachers.

Check out these highlights:
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    ​Why judgement is wrong. [​7:05]
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    ​The statement that changed the way I thought about judgment. [​​7:31]
  • Why judgement cuts off all influence you may have to persuade them to do things differently. [​​8:59]
  • The magic question one friend asked me that changed forever the way I deal with people who whine, complain, and don’t want to change. [​​​15:31]
  • How to use the VIBES acronym to help you be curious instead of furious. [​​​16:17]
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